Peace

What constitutes peace?  Is it different for each person or is a general feeling of serenity?

For me, peace is the harmony that I feel when everything is running smoothly.  That doesn't mean that we aren't busy or that the kids are being uber quiet, playing in seperate corners not being kids.  It is more like a feeling of balance ... a machine that is well oiled and running smoothly.

So how do you handle it when the delicate balance has been upset and it feels like someone is doing the scratch on a record album?  Do you ignore it in hopes that it will go away or right itself.  Or do you do everything in your power to restore the order?

This is the question that I have been asking myself.  There is nothing more wonderful that a peaceful home ... happy kids who are getting along, hubby home and relaxing, and a corner on the couch where I can snuggle with a cozy throw and a good book. 

However, I felt it necessary to bring an additional Jack Russell dog into our home.  I wanted Ethan to have a dog of his own.  (see previous story about Oliver)  Yet, I didn't really figure into the equation Elisabeth's cat and the fact that jacks like to chase and hunt.  Since Charlie has been here for three years, they are quasi friends.  Plus Lola (new dog) is older.  I have to give her credit...she is a relatively mellow dog and gets along well with the kids and Charlie.  So what am I to do?  Keep her and find the time to attempt to train her or find her another home?  UGH!!

So needless to say, I am working on restoring the peace and harmony balance in my home... wish me luck.